If you had asked me even two weeks ago if I had done the inner work necessary to understand how this life works and figure out what I believe, I probably would have said “yes”. What I’ve realized (very recently) is that there is so much left to do and honestly, it’s an ongoing process that never ends. I am happy, happier than I’ve ever been in my life, but I haven’t been able to find a balance or a flow in my life that keeps me from feeling frustrated and also from achieving everything I want to achieve.

What I’ve realized is that I was expecting things to drop from the sky because I had practiced my meditation, and let go of anger and resentment toward things and people in my life, started a business and felt that accomplishment, and I have been busy (not necessarily good if it’s not the right busy). While those are really good things and definitely the reason for my happiness right now, there is more to be done. Without even really realizing it…I have been in a rut.

I have a vision for the life I want to live and have finally realized that it’s necessary to set goals and intentions for making that vision happen. Let me be clear, I know that by setting goals and intentions and then starting the work necessary to achieve those things, the Universe will give me guidance and help along the way. Setting goals is my way of saying to God, Universe…I’m ready and willing to make this happen and open and available to whatever good is waiting for me.

My meditation is still so important and part of a necessary balance. That has been the one thing that I was totally committed to while I was letting so many other things slip. My workouts were sporadic: I had fallen into bad eating habits and gained a few pounds, I was blogging, but not with my whole heart. I said a prayer…It was, please show me right next steps, show me more than I can see, (imagine) more than I can say…let’s do this. Almost immediately, things started happening. I found a masterclass (or 3) that I’ve been pouring my whole heart into and as a result, I’ve gotten back into my fitness routine with a new passion, I’ve changed my diet (already lost a few pounds), and I have been inspired to send emails and as a result, opportunities have been presented to me. I’m taking charge and CO-CREATING my life.

What I’ve realized is that by not eating well, not taking care of my body physically, and not taking the steps to make things happen, I’m sending a sign to the Universe that what I want is just not that important, and all of that is reflected in my life. I guess you could say that I’ve had an ah-ha moment. I have to be consistent in doing my part. I want a big life and it’s not going to drop into my lap.

I’ve heard it said that worry is a prayer for getting what you don’t want. The other side of that is that setting positive goals and intentions, followed by action is a prayer for everything you want.

I just wanted to share this with you in case you’re feeling in a rut. It really is up to you to figure it out and I promise, once you take those first steps and set those goals, people will show up (sometimes people that are already friends will blow your mind with help), opportunities will open up and you’ll be amazed…but like I said, it starts with you and simply praying and meditating aren’t going to make it happen. Put your plan into action and ask for guidance along the way.

On a really practical note, I’ve started planning my day…almost to the minute which is very helpful. I get so much more done and my focus is where it needs to be. I schedule time for reading and study because I want to continue to learn and grow. I’m also planning meals, paying more attention to my spending and have a schedule for working out. I’m still working on a content calendar for Crazy Blonde Life…for some reason I have a harder time with that than with almost anything else, although, at times, it’s dictated by collaborations. I think it’s my spontaneous nature that’s causing a problem!

Keep scrolling and I’ll share the resources that are helping me right now as well as a few that are on my list!

Veronica Beard Blouse - Crazy Blonde Life

And now…on to the outfit! As you probably know, ruffles and statement sleeves are a huge trend right now. This is a trend that I found a little difficult because sometimes ruffles can look a little juvenile and I don’t want to come across as trying to look like I’m 20 when I’m clearly not! Luckily, I found this blouse from Veronica Beard (it also comes in grey)! I love that it’s linen, but it’s also this great rust color that will go beautifully into fall and looks great with a tan. The ruffles are more understated and not so frilly making it perfect for my age. I paired it with white (but it’s soooo good with jeans) and added my light blue Valentino gladiator sandals and an off white Staud bag.

I know the shoes are a little pricy and you might be thinking light blue???, but surprisingly, they go with so many outfits and Baldy loves them! These are shoes that will last for years to come!